Okay! so this is my first Blog rather my first attempt to writing and I have NO IDEA what i am going to write. But nevertheless, out of nowhere i have this urge to express myself through writing. But then before i start I need to introduce myself. I am 27 year old Indian Girl working at a place i am least interested in. Oh! did i forget to mention m not just a 27 Year old Indian Girl but also SINGLE. And yes! i say that in CAPSLOCK and Using BOLD feature..so that you can understand how big a thing is that in my life. Just few years back when i turned 25 i never thought on my birthday how being single would change everything in my life. I guess i should have guessed it when my granddad called to wish me and said" Happy Bday beta!! lekin..abb tho tumhari umar nikal gayi shaadi ki.. " I laughed it off.. now i realize How Naive i was..cause in past 2 years i have been made to believe that marriage is my ULTIMATE goal. And i am not saying that only my parents are concerned in fact if that was the case i wouldn't have been complaining but somehow suddenly everyone and everything around me is just worried bout me getting married. Woah! who thought i would get soooo much attention. To add to my misery people around me like friends, cousins, colleagues, friends ke friends, friends ke behen, bhai wagera..wagerah...are getting married or are already married. And IF they are not married then they are asking me to get married.( WHY GOD ..WHY?? WHY I AM SOO IMPORTANT)
The most funny part bout this whole scenario is that most of my married friends would crib bout marriage to me for hours,telling me how being single was fun, how they miss being independent, all in all telling me How life was much better before they got married...( not that they hated their married life...lets just say..they were happier when they were single) and after cribbing for hours, in the end they would ask me ( and this is the best part)..." When are you getting married?" And I am thinking like Hell I am getting married after listening to all that cribbing. ( Clearly my friends are not good at Motivational Talk).
And if you think peer pressure was restricted to studies, co - curricular activity or your professional life you are wrong my friend ... cause one day i was told by my friend to get married soon in fact if possible by the end of the year..cause she will plan her "FAMILY PLANNING" accordingly as she don't want to be expecting during my marriage cause she wants to dance. ( now that is a serious PEER PRESSURE).
Anyway, Sau( 100) crore ka sawal, asked by everyone to me is when i am getting married? So to answer that I would say.. I DON"T KNOW...
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